After we were finished I wrapped him up in my arms and held him close for a long while. He snuggled his sweet face into my neck so gently whispered to me "I Love you Sooo Much Mommy!" I melted. He was telling me I know you love me and that is why you do what you do. So wise this little guy...so wise!!
Later that day during my quiet time with the Lord, this scenario kept coming to my mind. I poured my grieving heart out. To be honest, I threw myself a pity party. Thankfully no one but myself was invited to this party! It was not a pretty sight. As I cried out to the Lord, through all that I saw as "unfair", I could feel him beginning to quiet my panicked and angry heart. I could feel a peace fill in those dark places. I could hear him saying..."I know it isn't fair my child, but hold out and endure through this. Please know there is a purpose! A purpose to your pain and a purpose to Carter's pain. It isn't easy, but draw close to me!" I wanted to shout back and say "But God...I DON'T WANT TO BE BRAVE! I'M TIRED!!" How many times have we thought or uttered these words? How many times have we wanted to say ENOUGH!?
As I thought about all this I began to realize how much God loves me. How much he loves Carter. I would give anything to take away Carter's daily pain. To tell him it's OK you don't have to be brave. But I also know that through all this and through all these times my sweet innocent 2 year old has had to muster up bravery beyond words of explanation....he is better for it. There is purpose in ripping off that band-aid and purpose in the pain. As uncomfortable as it is, purpose.
The same can be said for the trials we walk through in life. Are we going to choose to say.."God I don't want to be brave! But I will allow this to make me a better person! I will trust you. But please Lord hold me close." Wow, that is much easier said than done. I'm glad I am not alone on this walk though. Those times when I feel tired and anything but brave, I have a Lord who will be brave for me. Who will hold me close and walk me through troubled times. He conquered the grave. He has overcome death and given life!! There is hope in the darkness. PURPOSE!!!
"I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength." Philippians 4:12-14
"For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength." 1 Corinthians 1:25
You Never Let Go lyrics
by Matt Redman
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
Your perfect love is casting out fear
And even when I'm caught in the middle of the storms of this life
I won't turn back
I know you are near
And I will fear no evil
For my God is with me
And if my God is with me
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear?
(Chorus:)
Oh no, You never let go
Through the calm and through the storm
Oh no, You never let go
In every high and every low
Oh no, You never let go
Lord, You never let go of me
And I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on
A glorious light beyond all compare
And there will be an end to these troubles
But until that day comes
We'll live to know You here on the earth
(Chorus)
Yes, I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on
And there will be an end to these troubles
But until that day comes
Still I will praise You, still I will praise You
Your perfect love is casting out fear
And even when I'm caught in the middle of the storms of this life
I won't turn back
I know you are near
And I will fear no evil
For my God is with me
And if my God is with me
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear?
(Chorus:)
Oh no, You never let go
Through the calm and through the storm
Oh no, You never let go
In every high and every low
Oh no, You never let go
Lord, You never let go of me
And I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on
A glorious light beyond all compare
And there will be an end to these troubles
But until that day comes
We'll live to know You here on the earth
(Chorus)
Yes, I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on
And there will be an end to these troubles
But until that day comes
Still I will praise You, still I will praise You